Foster friendships and create spaces for fun
with our adolescence and young adults.
By Eliana Navarro, Youth Leader, Bogotá, Cundinamarca, Colombia
Pre-adolescence and adolescence are crucial stages for healthy and conscious human development. During this time, most young people question everything and have an insatiable thirst for justice and freedom of expression. Their parents cease to be their primary source of influence, and they are directly influenced by their teachers, favorite leaders, and friends. Additionally, they seek acceptance and meaning in relationships outside of their home where they may experience new sensations, take risks, face choices, and assume consequences according to their good or bad decisions. They also learn to manage their limits and recognize themselves physically and emotionally.
Consequently, these years can bring with them many changes and potential threats for adolescents who may be in a fragile condition in the face of the challenges. In our Bogotá congregation, we understand the importance of providing comprehensive support to youth and adolescents, offering them a safe space where they can explore their identity, develop social skills, and make informed decisions. Our strategy is centered on three fundamental pillars:
The first pillar is to foster friendship among young people. Community is key to connecting them with the body of Christ. Seeing other young people loving and serving God, encourages the desire to live in holiness and know Him personally. It’s contagious. It is fundamental to foster a safe community, where young people can be vulnerable to share doubts about faith, difficulties, and sorrows without being condemned. Neighborhood camps can be a good start to building strong bonds, but everyday activities, like going to the park or celebrating birthdays, strengthen these ties. By sharing simple experiences, a solid community is created where young people feel accepted and motivated to follow God.
The second pillar is to create spaces for fun. In a period dominated by screens, the importance of face-to-face interactions has become more evident than ever. Young people, although digitally connected, often need stronger social skills. The lack of face-to-face interaction has created a gap in their relationships. Creating spaces where they can connect authentically through games and activities that promote communication, cooperation, and fun is crucial. Board games, competitions, and team activities are valuable tools for developing these social skills and building more meaningful relationships.
Finally, relevant content allows young people not only to connect with God’s word but also to find answers to their deepest questions and develop a strong faith. By providing them with practical tools, role models, and transformative experiences, we empower them to become leaders and servants of God. Additionally, by adapting the message to their context and using digital tools, we can demonstrate how the gospel is relevant and appealing to their generation. This year, by working with materials from Cru and CIPEC, we have taken the first steps to create opportunities for Christ to build their faith, but it is essential to continue offering relevant and challenging content that inspires them to grow spiritually.
