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Speaking Of Life 4047 │ Prayer: It’s Not a Transaction
Michelle Fleming
Have you ever bought a snack from a vending machine? You put your coins in, push the button, and then your treat drops down behind a small swinging door where you can retrieve it. That’s what happens if the vending machine is working right. But sometimes the vending machine takes your money and doesn’t drop any treats. You push the coin return, but no coins come back. So you put more coins in, and this time you choose something else. But then that doesn’t work, either. You might give up, or you might file a complaint, but more than likely, you walk away disappointed. The vending machine is part of a transaction where you put money in and expect to receive goods in return.
Sometimes we get the idea that our relationship with God is transactional. We think if we offer up the right prayer, or get the right number of people praying, God will answer. We might also misinterpret scriptures, thinking they are telling us what to do, when what they’re really telling us is how good and gracious God is. A good example of this is in the parable of the Unjust Judge found in Luke 18.
The story goes like this: there was a judge who didn’t care what anybody thought – he only cared about himself. But there was this widow who kept bugging him, night and day, saying, “Give me justice!” Finally, the judge did what the widow asked because he was sick and tired of being bothered.
Many of us who remember this parable might think that Jesus is saying we should keep praying, much like plugging more coins into that vending machine, until God answers our prayer. You may have heard phrases like “storming the gates of heaven,” referring to a particular style of intercessory prayer. These types of prayer are more interested in outcome than in relationship. This parable is about how not to pray.
Notice Jesus’ words as he interprets the importance of the parable’s meaning:
6-8 “Do you hear what that judge, corrupt as he is, is saying? So what makes you think God won’t step in and work justice for his chosen people, who continue to cry out for help? Won’t he stick up for them? I assure you, he will.
Luke 18:6-8 (The Message)
The main point of the parable is not about what we do, but it’s about who God is. In the parable, Jesus contrasts the character of an unjust judge with the kind and compassionate character of God. Jesus says that if someone with such low character finally listens to a widow who had no status or money, how much more likely it is that our loving Father God will hear and answer us?
Prayer was never intended to be a transaction, like coins we plug into a vending machine, expecting our desires to be granted. Instead, prayer offers us the chance to develop a relationship with God. Prayer is about knowing God and seeing his divine love and comfort for us and for others. Parables like the Unjust Judge are intended to show us we can always rely on God’s good and gracious character.
My hope is that we all experience prayer as it was so beautifully intended –
a life-giving, loving relationship with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
I’m Michelle Fleming, Speaking of Life.
Program Transcript
Speaking Of Life 4047 │ Prayer: It’s Not a Transaction
Michelle Fleming
Have you ever bought a snack from a vending machine? You put your coins in, push the button, and then your treat drops down behind a small swinging door where you can retrieve it. That’s what happens if the vending machine is working right. But sometimes the vending machine takes your money and doesn’t drop any treats. You push the coin return, but no coins come back. So you put more coins in, and this time you choose something else. But then that doesn’t work, either. You might give up, or you might file a complaint, but more than likely, you walk away disappointed. The vending machine is part of a transaction where you put money in and expect to receive goods in return.
Sometimes we get the idea that our relationship with God is transactional. We think if we offer up the right prayer, or get the right number of people praying, God will answer. We might also misinterpret scriptures, thinking they are telling us what to do, when what they’re really telling us is how good and gracious God is. A good example of this is in the parable of the Unjust Judge found in Luke 18.
The story goes like this: there was a judge who didn’t care what anybody thought – he only cared about himself. But there was this widow who kept bugging him, night and day, saying, “Give me justice!” Finally, the judge did what the widow asked because he was sick and tired of being bothered.
Many of us who remember this parable might think that Jesus is saying we should keep praying, much like plugging more coins into that vending machine, until God answers our prayer. You may have heard phrases like “storming the gates of heaven,” referring to a particular style of intercessory prayer. These types of prayer are more interested in outcome than in relationship. This parable is about how not to pray.
Notice Jesus’ words as he interprets the importance of the parable’s meaning:
6-8 “Do you hear what that judge, corrupt as he is, is saying? So what makes you think God won’t step in and work justice for his chosen people, who continue to cry out for help? Won’t he stick up for them? I assure you, he will.
Luke 18:6-8 (The Message)
The main point of the parable is not about what we do, but it’s about who God is. In the parable, Jesus contrasts the character of an unjust judge with the kind and compassionate character of God. Jesus says that if someone with such low character finally listens to a widow who had no status or money, how much more likely it is that our loving Father God will hear and answer us?
Prayer was never intended to be a transaction, like coins we plug into a vending machine, expecting our desires to be granted. Instead, prayer offers us the chance to develop a relationship with God. Prayer is about knowing God and seeing his divine love and comfort for us and for others. Parables like the Unjust Judge are intended to show us we can always rely on God’s good and gracious character.
My hope is that we all experience prayer as it was so beautifully intended –
a life-giving, loving relationship with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
I’m Michelle Fleming, Speaking of Life.
Psalm 119:97–104 • Jeremiah 31:27–34 • 2 Timothy 3:14–4:5 • Luke 18:1–8
This week’s theme is The Transformative Power of God’s Word in our lives. In our call to worship psalm, the psalmist reflects on his love for God’s word, which he has internalized and meditates on constantly. In Jeremiah, the prophet speaks of God’s promise of a new covenant where his law will be written on our hearts. In 2 Timothy, the apostle Paul instructs Timothy that internalizing Scripture equips us to live faithfully and share truth boldly. And in Luke, Jesus shares the story of the Persistent Widow to illustrate that internalized faith sustains us in prayer and perseverance, even when answers seem delayed.
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The King’s Couriers
2 Timothy 3:14–4:5 NIV
In ancient times, royal messages were entrusted to specially trained couriers who memorized the king’s exact words. These messengers faced three critical challenges: First, they had to know the message perfectly — word for word. Second, they had to proclaim it exactly as given, without alteration. And third, they had to defend it from those who might intercept them to destroy or distort the king’s words.1
These couriers had a vital sense of mission. They weren’t just carrying information; they were carrying the very authority and will of the king himself. To alter the message was treason while proclaiming it faithfully was their highest calling.
In our passage today, Paul is essentially commissioning Timothy — and by extension — as couriers of the King of kings. In 2 Timothy 3:14–4:5, we see this same three–fold responsibility: knowing God’s message through Scripture, proclaiming it faithfully, and defending it against those who would alter or distort it for their own purposes.
As we explore these verses together, let’s consider our roles as God’s couriers. Let’s examine what it means for us to know, proclaim, and defend the message of the King.
But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is God–breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.
In the presence of God and of Christ Jesus, who will judge the living and the dead, and in view of his appearing and his kingdom, I give you this charge: Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction. For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. But you, keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry. 2 Timothy 4:1–5 NIV
Knowing the message
Paul begins by encouraging Timothy to remember his foundation, that from his youth he had been instructed in the scriptures. In 2 Timothy 1:5, Paul mentions Timothy’s grandmother, as well as his mother, Eunice, as being the ones who instructed him in the faith.
At this time, the scriptures that Paul would have been talking about was the Old Testament. Paul singles out those scriptures as being the ones which instructed Timothy for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus (2 Timothy 3:15).
Paul goes on to talk about the various ways that the scriptures are supposed to help us in our walk with Christ. Like Timothy, some of us grew up learning the scriptures, while others may be brand new in their faith. Wherever we happen to find ourselves, we are all presented with the privilege and task of embracing the gospel message. As the King’s couriers, we are to know the good news of Jesus Christ intimately.
We should champion the role of our children’s Sunday School departments. For many of our young ones, this is where they first get to hear about the love of God offered through Christ Jesus. Bible study together as a church is vitally important, as is having a devotional time whether alone or with your family. The King’s couriers know the message and become the message themselves.
Proclaiming the message
In 2 Timothy 4:2, Paul reminds Timothy of the importance of sharing the good news. Although Paul’s letter is addressed to his young protégé, the truth is just as applicable to those who are not pastors or leaders in the church. All believers are the King’s couriers. We all share in the high calling of proclaiming the gospel message.
Verse 2 also tells us that we are to be prepared in season and out of season. We can’t know for certain, but an example of “in season” could have meant when it is expected or when the situation is favorable.2 This could involve sharing your testimony at church or with someone who is obviously interested. “Out of season” could be when someone puts you on the spot when the conditions aren’t so favorable, or when someone skeptically asks you why you believe in Jesus. These are times when what you have to say may not be popular.
In this same verse, Paul also mentions correcting, rebuking, and encouraging others. Most of us probably wouldn’t have a problem with encouraging others, but to correct and rebuke, that could be a different story. That’s why Paul warns us to do these things with great care and patience. You want to pray and seek wisdom from the Spirit and spiritual guidance from your pastor or mentor in the faith before you start correcting and rebuking things you might disagree with.
Defending the message
For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. 2 Timothy 4:3–4 NIV
Stephen Covey once wrote: “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”3 The main thing when it comes to the gospel message is Christ Jesus, him crucified and resurrected. It’s tempting to appeal to people’s sensibilities. But this only leads to distorted messages regarding Christ. Some people distort the message for influence and wealth. Others get carried away with pointless controversies and special knowledge about Jesus that they claim only a select few will ever understand.
As couriers of the King, our job is not to add to or change his message to fit our own desires that come from the flesh. Our task is not to engage in endless debates and quarrels. Instead, we have been charged with the simple task of keeping Jesus and his completed work for humanity as of utmost importance. This is the message that has the power to truly change the lives of those who we have been sent to deliver the King’s all-important message. Let us embrace our roles as his royal couriers — those who know, proclaim, and defend His beautiful message regarding our Lord and Savior, Jesus.
1) https://www.encyclopedia.com/history/news-wires-white-papers-and-books/messengers
2) https://www.bibleref.com/2-Timothy/4/2-Timothy-4-2.html
3) https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/170736-the-main-thing-is-to-keep-the-main-thing-the
Rev. Dr. Eun Strawser—Year C Proper 24
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October 19, 2025 — Proper 24 in Ordinary Time
2 Timothy 3:14-4:5 NRSVUE
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Small Group Discussion Questions
- What does it mean to you to be a courier of the King?
- What are some ways that you can become more grounded in the King’s message?
- How is your church facilitating knowing, proclaiming, and defending the message?
- Give some examples of proclaiming the message “in season” and “out of season.”
